This hinges on the RSUs. If they vest as expected, it’s a calculated risk. Without them, this feels too tight, especially after taxes and other expenses. Run a detailed budget to see if this makes sense.
It’s risky, especially with 3 kids. You’d be living on about $5k/month for everything else, assuming a high effective tax rate. Do a detailed budget before committing.
A 40% debt-to-income ratio is technically acceptable for many lenders, but you’ll need to be very disciplined. Make sure you’re comfortable with the payment and have a strong emergency fund.
This seems like a bad idea. Post-tax, you’ll have little wiggle room for emergencies, child-related costs, or saving for retirement. Factor in maintenance and taxes increasing over time.